My Early Years

For me, life has been hard.  As a matter of fact, my hubby says that my favorite saying is ” life is hard”.  I always say that when I get depressed or discouraged.  The truth is that life used to be hard but I didn’t really realize it when I was a kid.  In fact,  life has been pretty good lately for me and the future seems very bright.  My biggest problem right now is my impatience.  I know that really good things are coming but it’s hard to wait.  Patience is not my greatest virtue.

I was born into a poor family near a small village in a rural area in the southernmost island of the Philippines.  I managed to live a normal childhood through the warm support of my loving parents and family.  My father is a poor rice farmer and part-time minister of the gospel.  Many times we didn’t have much to eat and when it rained the thatched roof of our small nipa hut leaked and we all got wet.   Fortunately, it never gets cold there.

Finished School Years with Flying Colors

At an early age, I had already learned how to be frugal.  It was a necessity of life there for almost everyone.  In 1987, I attended my first grade at the public school.  Every day my mother gave me a half of a peso (1 penny) for snacks.  For that,  I could buy a banana barbecue on a stick. Sometimes I bought paper when I forgot to ask for more from my mother.  When we were financially tight, I didn’t get any allowance at all.  On top of that,  every day I walked with other kids about four miles round trip from our house to school.

My father and mother encouraged me to study hard and at the end of the year I always ended up in the top six of my class.   As a reward for my hard work, I would receive new clothes sewn by my mother or presents like toys.  It made my parents proud when I would get up on stage and received an honor ribbon.  Fortunately, God has blessed me with enough wit to make them happy and proud of me.  Overall, I did not disappoint them during my elementary and high school days.  I always finished my school years with flying colors.

Because of poverty I sometimes picked guavas in our yard to exchange for papers to do my school work or sold them so I could buy snacks.  Looking back on the hardships that I experienced in my early years,  I realize that I was really lucky because of the support of my family, I didn’t really feel poor.

My Early Years

For me, life has been hard.  As a matter of fact my hubby says that my favorite saying is ” life is hard”.  I always say that when I get depressed or discouraged.  The truth is that life used to be hard but I didn’t really realize it when I was a kid.  In fact,  life has been pretty good lately for me and the future seems very bright.  My biggest problem right now is my impatience.  I know that really good things are coming but it’s hard to wait.  Patience is not my greatest virtue. 

I was born into a poor family near a small village in a rural area in the southern most island of the Philippines.  I managed to live a normal childhood through the warm support of my loving parents and family.  My father is a poor rice farmer and part time minister of the gospel.  Many times we didn’t have much to eat and when it rained the thatched roof of our small nipa hut leaked and we all got wet.   Fortunately it never gets cold there. 

At an early age, I had already learned how to be frugal.  It was a necessity of life there for almost everyone.  In 1987, I attended my first grade at the public school.  Everyday my mother gave me a half of a peso (1 penny) for snacks.  For that  I could buy a banana barbecue on a stick. Sometimes I bought paper when I forgot to asked for more from my mother.  When we were financially tight, I didn’t get any allowance at all.  On top of that,  everyday I walked with other kids about four miles round trip from our house to school.  My father and mother encouraged me to study hard and at the end of the year I always ended up in the top six of my class.   As a reward for my hardwork, I would received new clothes sewn by my mother or presents like toys.  It made my parents proud when I would get up on stage and received an honor ribbon.  Fortunately, God has blessed me with enough wit to make them happy and proud of me.  Overall, I did not disappoint them during my elementary and high school days.  I always finished my school years with flying colors. 

Because of poverty I sometimes picked guavas in our yard to exchange for papers to do my school work or sold them so I could buy snacks.  Looking back on the hardships that I experienced in my early years,  I realize that I was really lucky because of the support of my family, I didn’t really feel poor.

3 COMMENTS

  1. mabelle | 14th Sep 09

    sus abi nakog ako ra d i naglisod gwapa….paita bitaw maglakaw oi…maayo kay dli ka patiran… ako lakaw pa gikan bukid padulong syadad unya pabalik pud…unya patiran pa ko kay hinay molakaw sus Ginoo paita….mamaligya pud ko sa una ug mga fruits aron naa extras…piso ra man akong baon hehehhe….

    unya maghimo pa flower icing sa cake mamolaw aron naa kita…mamotos pa mi ug wire para gamiton sa flower icing sa cake…unya liman ka 1000 pieces, sus 11pesos ra…ang usa ka roll sa wire kay 5 pesos ra…hastang paita ato nga time…unya wa pay tulog heheheh…

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  2. Norm | 14th Sep 09

    hi! Just visit you here I’m a friend of belle too.

  3. Nicole | 15th Sep 09

    If this is any indication of future posts, I love it. I absolutely loved reading about your life and learning where you came from and how you got to now. I’ve been on the other blog a few times, so I’m glad to have found you here. 🙂

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